Should Same Sex Marriages be Legal?
Most places you go you are likely to see people of the same sex holding hands or showing public display of affection towards each other. In a large number of places around the world same sex relations are publicly displayed in movies, music videos, commercials, schools and even churches, Sooner or later will same sex marriage be legalized globally? Same sex relations have been occurring for many years around the world, but same sex marriage has just become legal in recent years.
“The netherlands became the first country to legalize same sex marriage, divorce and adopt children. The legislation altered a single sentence in the existing civil marriage statute, which now reads, “A marriage can be contracted by two people of different or the same sex.”in the year of 2000. Malta was the last country so far since July 12, 2017 to legalize same sex marriage”, (Gay marriage around the world).
Same sex marriage is a very well known controversial subject, from what i have observed many people prefer not to talk about it or give their opinion on the topic especially if it involves a member of their family or someone they are close to. Some people agree that same sex marriage should not be legalized.
One of the main reasons for this is because a child needs both a mother and father in their life. Also a great number of today’s society believe that same sex marriage is unnatural and not right especially for people with religious views. Others believe that same sex marriage should be legalized, some say it relieves psychological distress and it decreases divorce rate between married couples.
Same sex marriage can be good in many different ways but one way is by relieving stress. “A US study that surveyed more than 36,000 people aged 18-70 found lesbian, gay and bisexual individuals were far less physiologically distressed if they were in a legally recognized same sex marriage than if they were not.” (Evidence is clear on the benefits of legalizing same sex marriage).
Ryan Anderson is the one author of this article. It was published august 25, 2017. “Ryan Anderson is a PhD candidate in the School of Arts and Social Sciences at James Cook University.” He holds Bachelor of Science and Bachelor of Psychology (Hons) qualifications. “His research interests include mathematics and statistics, evolutionary psychology, cognitive psychology, and social psychology.”
The information that the author gives is strong, he is an expert in this area which strengthens his information and although this article is strong there is one flaw and that flaw is the number of people that were surveyed. 36,000 people is a good amount but there are billions upon billions of people in the world and 36,000 does not say much to the authors point. The fact that the author uses other people’s opinions strengthens the source because others opinions make a big difference.
Marriage was originally meant for two people to be together till death splits them but many married couples get a divorce. Same sex marriage can be good and some say it lowers divorce rates. According to Pamela Engel “The divorce rate in the U.S. is at 53%. But Spain, Portugal, Luxembourg, the Czech Republic, and Hungary are worse off with divorce rates higher than 60%. Belgium has the highest rate of divorce in this data set at a staggering 70%.
The lowest official rate is in Chile with 3%.”( Business Insider). Pamela is the deputy editor overseeing the Politics and Military & Defense sections of Business Insider. She was previously the politics editor, and before that was a senior reporter covering domestic politics, foreign policy, and national security. Before BI, she worked for the Associated Press in Indianapolis.
She has also written for The Columbus Dispatch, the Scripps Howard news wire, and the New York Observer. According to the unified lawyers research; “Luxembourg, Spain, and France have the highest divorce rates globally” (Global divorce rates). “In Sweden, where unions became legal in 1995 and marriages in 2009, marriage and fertility rates have trended upwards and the divorce rate is down”,( 21 Amazing gay marriage divorce rate status).
Although some people think that same sex marriage should be legalized there are those who think same sex marriage shouldn’t. In the eyes of religious viewers same sex marriage is not right and it is not natural. According to Jennifer Harper of The Washington Times “worldwide, more than eight in ten people identify with a religious group. ”
Every individual engaged in the homosexual lifestyle, who has adopted a homosexual identity, they know, intuitively, that what they’re doing is immoral, unnatural, and self-destructive, yet they thirst for that affirmation. Jennifer Harper is a writer for The Washington Post. Although she doesn’t have any education on same sex marriage she works for The Washington Post which proves that she had to do a lot of research to write this article.
Jennifer Harper does not have many credentials but she has lots of research. A 2003 set of guidelines signed by Pope John Paul II stated: “There are absolutely no grounds for considering homosexual unions to be in any way similar or even remotely analogous to God’s plan for marriage and family marriage is holy, while homosexual acts go against the natural moral law.” Former Arkansas governor and Republican presidential candidate Mike Huckabee stated in Oct. 2014 that “Gay marriage is “inconsistent with nature and nature’s law”(Homosexuality is immoral and unnatural).
Gay marriage is classified in the bible as an abomination. In the book Leviticus 18:22 it states: “Thou shalt not lie with mankind, as with womankind: it is abomination.” The bible condemns homesexual relashionships in every way. “In islamic tradition, Several hadiths(passages attributed to the prophet Muhammad) condemn gay and lesbian relationships, including the sayings “When a man mounts another man, the throne of God shakes,” and “Sihaq [lesbian sex] of women is zina [illegitimate sexual intercourse].”
The Catholic Church, United Methodist Church, Southern Baptist Convention, Church of Jesus Christ of Latter-day Saints, National Association of Evangelicals, and American Baptist Churches USA all oppose same-sex marriage. Two orthodox Jewish groups, the Orthodox Agudath Israel of America and the Orthodox Union, also oppose gay marriage, as does mainstream Islam.”(Gay marriage is contrary to the world of god and is incompatible with the beliefs, sacred texts, and traditions of many religious groups.) Pope Benedict stated in january 2012 that gay marriage threatened “the future of humanity itself.”
Pope Benedict XVI served as pope from 2005 until his resignation in 2013. Pope Benedict XVI is 90 years old. He has many years of experience with religion and how some people of religious ways see same sex marriage. These sources are reliable and are very strong sources because they are written by the ProCon organization. They are a leading source for pros and cons of controversial issues.
There mission is to promote critical thinking, education, and informed citizenship by presenting controversial issues in a straightforward, nonpartisan, and primarily pro-con format. Religion itself is a very strong reason that same sex marriage should not be legalized. This article explains its point and gets it across very well. It gives perspectives of multiple religions and gives more than one person’s opinion. Children hunger from attention from their parents they need a mother to teach them things and they need a father to teach them things.
Some things that fathers can teach to their children a mother cannot teach to her children and it is the same the other way around. “By 8 weeks of age, infants can tell the difference between a male or female interacting with them. This diversity, in itself, provides children with a broader, richer experience of contrasting relational interactions more so than for children who are raised by only one gender.
Whether they realize it or not, children are learning at earliest age, by sheer experience, that men and women are different and have different ways of dealing with life, other adults and children. Fathers tend to play with, and mothers tend to care for, children Fathers encourage competition; mothers encourage equity. One style encourages independence while the other encourages security, both provide security and confidence in their own ways by communicating love and physical intimacy.
Either of these parenting styles by themselves can be unhealthy. One can tend toward encouraging risk without consideration of consequences. The other tends to avoid risk, which can fail to build independence, confidence and progress. Joined together, they keep each other in balance and help children remain safe while expanding their experiences and confidence. Father’s talk tends to be more brief, directive and to the point.
It also makes greater use of subtle body language. Mothers tend to be more descriptive, personal and verbally encouraging. Dads tend to see their child in relation to the rest of the world. Mothers tend to see the rest of the world in relation to their child” (Why children need a male and female parent). Cornerstone Family Council is a public policy partner of Focus on the Family. And we’re part of a vibrant national alliance of pro-family state groups.
As a Christ-centered organization, our vision is a nation where God is honored, religious freedom flourishes, families thrive and life is cherished. This source is not the most credible source but it has a very good argument. The fact that a child needs both a mother and father is a very strong argument but like many sources on the internet this source has a biased opinion. The fact they it is a christian organization tells that they have a vested interest in this topic being that most christians are against most same sex relations.
There are many people that believe that same sex marriage should be legalized for reasons like psychological distress and it decreases divorce rate. These people have great reason to believe this way. There are many reasons that it can be good and there is very supporting information to support this belief but there is also an equal or greater amount of supporting information to support why it should not be legalized. some reasons are religion and the fact that a child needs their mother and father in their life.
As stated before there are certain things only a mother can teach and there are certain things only a father can teach. I myself do not believe that same sex marriage should be legalized, I do not agree with it. I do not judge anyone in a same sex marriage but since i live in a christian home i do not believe in it.
Most of my family is religious and we do not believe that same sex marriage is right. After spending a large amount of time researching whether “Same sex marriage should be legalized globally?”, it has made me think about things involving same sex relations but it has not changed my opinion and it has not changed what i believe.